Remember that when you are in the USA, as in any other country, it is important to be careful. As a courtesy to your host family, we suggest keeping them informed as to your whereabouts, particularly if you are using your host family’s car.
Americans keep their homes locked when going out and sometimes even when they are inside the home. We recommend that you review your host family’s preferences for safety practices with them and follow the customs that they outline.
Many of our au pairs enjoy going out with friends at night. When you go out at night, you should always go with another person. It is extremely important to remember to practice caution at all times. Never accept a ride or go with someone you do not know.
Unfortunately, many parts of the United States have a higher rate of crime than other parts of the world. If you are coming home late at night, ask your host family if it is safe to take public transportation, or if you should take a taxi. It is more expensive to take a taxi, but it is worth it to be safe. If you are walking home late at night, keep your keys ready so you can get into the house quickly, if necessary. Walk confidently and always trust your instincts, no matter how silly it may seem.
If you feel nervous about someone who is walking near you, cross the street immediately. Avoid talking on your mobile phone to remain alert to your surroundings. Try to stay in busy, well-lit areas. Don’t ever go home with someone that you have just met, and never give out your host family’s phone number to strangers!
Try not to carry more than $50 US in cash at any time. If you need more money than this, carry your credit card. In some major American cities, street crime is common, and the best protection is to be careful. Women should have purses with strong shoulder straps, and men should not carry their wallets in their back pockets. If you have a jacket, carry your wallet in the inside pocket. If you are ever involved in any kind of street crime, the best strategy is simply to cooperate. Remember that you are only losing money.