Much like relationships between heterosexual men and women that are marked by prescribed gender norms (Schwartz & Rutter, 1998), relationships between gay API men and their overwhelmingly white sexual partners seem to follow a gendered pattern. Within gay white and gay API male relationships, gay API men are often expected to take on the more feminine role of sexual ‘‘bottoms,’’ to gay white male ‘‘tops.’’ (Nemoto et al., 2003).