The issue with you is that you are so involved in questions of practicality and possibility that you are unable to give yourself sufficient emotional freedom to express instinctively and having fun. This might spoil many an occasion. Taking nothing away from your ability to love someone and express it, you have the making of an excellent companion. The cool attitude is helpful in clearing out cobwebs – many people try to be cool but just can’t. But this cool attitude borders one of not caring, or so your companion might think. As a result, once you are in a relationship that you have selected after a long while, it might not be too warm for too long, as you would demand of it.