Welcome to the board. It's your first post and you place it in the "airline deals" section, that's why you are getting the responses you are.
Also, take a bit of time just to peruse the board. You'll read some stories, see some pics and gather some info so that you can just send a PM to the appropriate persons that would have this info.
There are some "swinger" or open minded couples on this board and it becomes very obvious if you just take some time to read and get yourself familiar with it.
Have a great trip to Thailand and we look forward to your Trip Reports!
Mark