why 1 or 2 ?... well.... without meeting.... how are we supposed to know if we will truly meet a friend...... I love 'chatting' on line..... but we are here to make friends right?..... maybe some people (guys) are just here to find sex.... and maybe some people are here... just to "chat"... and others are here to find their soul mates/husbands/wives.. and some woman are here to find their ATM machine.... and a few women are here to offer their 'services' for money... (especially Pattaya.... ) ..