my parents decided to divorce. Since then, I had no contact with my father. When I was a little child I was told by my mother and her family that he was a bad person and that he was the one to blame for the split-up of my parents. The court decided then that my father was allowed to see me once every two weeks. Because of the bad stories told by my mother and her family about my father I was afraid of him. During that time my mother and her family warned me to avoid him, and I was told that he was going to kidnap me if I went with him. Because of the many arguments between my parents, the court stopped the arrangement concerning parental access and my father disappeared from my life