My friend suggested that if we are truly good friends and wish to meet each other some day in the future, then that is better i visit you in your country first before thinking of you visiting me. That if i visit you in your country, that will show your husband that we are nothing but good friend and because of that he may allow you to visit me in my own country anytime in want. I accepted his idea both mum and my son while they all send their regards to you and your family.