The member then returns to the group and focuses on how he or she feels now. For example, do you feel whole or fragmented? Do you feel awkward or comfortable? Are you happy or sad? Other members should focus on how they felt when someone leaves. Are you sorry? Or do you feel rejected when someone moves away? Some members may feel that the group had annihilated the one who has left and that they can abuse him. Others may feel that the person who has left is freer and stronger than the group.