but I didn’t like it for I so scare that I would mislead the kids. My mother quarreled with me because I didn’t follow what she said. For my insistence, my mother has to gave up and let me chose by myself. After this event, I decided all over the things by myself. No matter how important the thing is. Like the debates, although sometimes our opinions are different, we communicate our thoughts and make the choice depend on our own. If we hesitate to do one thing and do not make up our mind, we can’t do the thing successfully. So, when my university has the program of transferring to the ASU, I was attracted by this chance. I wanted to go so I told my parents what I thought. I knew it’s lonely and hard for me to study in an