As for what the right one means to me, it is the girl that I connect with intellectually, emotionally, spiritually, and sexually. I don't like girls who are overly materialistic and selfish so I hope you have more hobbies than just shopping. I also don't like a girl who can't go more than 5 minutes without being on her cellphone checking Facebook. I want someone who will enjoy the experiences life has to offer with me rather than post about it for her digital friends.