4. Be Vague
You need to make it clear that the friendship is over, but there is no reason to rehash every detail of what happened between you. Even if a relationship is ending because it’s been particularly toxic, there’s really no need to get into it. “Be respectful, be very general, and be vague. Don’t start any fires. Say something along the lines of 'I really value you as a friend, but I think our lives are going in different directions. I’m being pulled elsewhere and don’t think I’m going to be able to spend as much time with you,'" says Dr. Bonior. Don’t make it about them, don’t turn it into a fight, and don’t make it about them; but clearly let them know that you won’t be hanging out again.