Welcome to the world's largest adult dating site. Whether you're ready to dive in or just testing the waters, here's how to get started.
Upload Photos and Complete Your Profile: First, get your profile approved so other members can see you. Just fill in a brief introduction and headline - and be sure to upload a photo! Profiles with pictures get noticed...it's as simple as that. You can also record a video introduction, a fun way to show people what you have to offer.
Respond to Welcome Messages: You may receive messages from friendly members who are looking for people just like you. These icebreaker messages are sent by us on behalf of these active members, as a service they request. If you get one, reply and say "hi" or accept their friend request.
Search for Compatible People: To find the right someone for you, search by age or location, and don't forget to set your cupid preferences so we can send your perfect matches to you. Feel free to hotlist these matches to let them know you're interested. If you want to connect with them, upgrade to Gold to send messages, flirts, and friend requests. Gold Members also have access to advanced search features that can help you find exactly what you're looking for.
Enjoy Member-Contributed Content: All members can browse the hottest members, videos, and photos in the What's Hot section for free! You can also "like" what you see and mark content as favorites. If you want to get the full experience, become a Gold Member so you can enjoy unlimited access to videos, view full-size photos, comment on content.
Join the Live Action: It's free to get some action in real-time. Check out IMC, the chat rooms, and live member broadcasts. If you want even more action, just get a Gold Membership and you'll be able to view more than one live member broadcast a day and look at multiple webcams at the same time. What a way to multitask!
Be in the Know: Want to know who's doing what when? Set your Email Preferences so you'll receive the kinds of notifications you want, when you want.
Join the Community: Get active and meet more people - for free! All members can read blogs, post status updates, and find people with similar tastes and interests in our groups section. You can even start your own group and write your own blog.
Have fun exploring, and get ready to have the time of your life!