If you have ever witnessed an argument from the ‘outside’, you’ll no doubt have simply heard a load of screaming, lots of anger being vented and very little resolution at the end. Arguments can be very destructive. Nothing ever seems to get resolved and many of the valid points either side might have to make tend to get lost amidst the shouting and personal attacks which can be vindictive and vicious.
Arguments tend to occur because either party has built up resentment over the other’s behaviour or standpoint over a period of time until it erupts in the form of a verbal confrontation. However, the important thing is to try to resolve these differences calmly as both parties are then more likely to be able to understand the other side’s viewpoint a lot more clearly and this is far more likely to result in a successful resolution to both parties, even if that might mean compromise on the side of one or both parties.