about same, when we started being together she said "i am afraid, if a day we will break up we won't be even friends anymore", and i told her "i promise you, whatever will happen you will be always my friend"
when she broke up she said she hates me cause i had tears in my eyes and she didn't want me to phone or write her. So i stayed into my bedroom for months, thinking of her.... and a day she sent me a message, she said "my new boyfriend is much more rude, he isn't sweet as you, so he never goes out with me and i am bored. Write me something"
i wrote her many things and she felt better, but i didn't. then she said she got used not to be considerated by him and they broke up and she rarelly write me but i never dare to do too