You tend to be strongly attracted physically to a lover and to have affairs that take you by storm. These affairs have a certain fated quality, and you feel almost powerless to stop them.
Even in a slower and steadier affair, however, you are the prime mover in bringing to light problems or hidden motivations between you and your partner.
Exercising this ability can be quite important in a relationship, as your own sexual interest in your partner may pivot quite directly on actively positive emotional relations.