am a laid back guy looking for a social woman that makes friends easily, likes running, outdoors, hiking, kayaking, tanning or just sitting on the beach, shopping, watching theater plays, wine tastings, and a ton of other things outside. I'm also very content sitting home to watch some good movies with popcorn, beer, wine, or whatever the thirst or hunger is for the night (I do not drink very often). As for my looks, you will not be disappointed, but I am not a 6'1" lean cut super model. She should also be confident enough to stand her ground to others and be independent enough to go out with her friends, yet remain FAITHFUL. HONESTY is EXTREMELY important to me. She should be a determined person. I love being close, romance and intimacy is something that is very important too...and yes, I like holding hands, playing around with each other like wrestling with each other or playing twister while having drinks.
WHAT A WOMAN MEANS TO ME (philosophical, not religious): Women were made from man's rib, not from his head to be his superior, not from his feet to be walked on, but from his side to be his equal, from under his arm to be protected from all harm and next to his heart to be loved. (I am not really that religious, but like this.)
I do not like or do drugs, do not smoke, no heavy drinking (rarely drink), etc..I like to have a drink once in awhile, but know how to keep it in moderation. Please be real and do not misrepresent yourself. A mature fun person, not someone who takes things too far to embarrass themselves and others. They should also take pretty good care of themselves and can jog/run or try and like to be out of the house. I love traveling and definitely long drives when on the mainland.
Yes, I do have pics, but I do not like to post on such a small island and for other reasons which I am sure you can understand by reading this profile. Easy decisions: music over television, touching over needing space, a few well-designed things over lots of random stuff, dark chocolate over light, wine over beer, unique over popular, fresh squeezed over frozen, and affection over restraint :-) Really important things: I want to be the first person you turn to when the news is great, the first one you turn to when it isn’t and just the first one you turn to, period. I want to be able to laugh till we cry. I want the trust, warmth, and generosity of your heart. I want you to be my best friend and lover...
Good small things: candy, the smell of Christmas, the sound of the ocean, snowball fights, photographs and memories, a good book or movie, a random note, a smile, a great friend, a touch on the hand or arm, a baby laughing, a great big tight hug, children smiling, cooking together.... write me for a life of being loved :-) I do look very young for my age, hopefully it will not turn you off, but I really am 41. If you have questions, I can write and talk a lot, so be prepared.