Well - I don't feel like there is much of one, to be honest. Our conversations are short, but they are more like messages left for each other rather than an actual conversation.
And I'm not blaming you or anything - between the time difference and each of us being busy with school or job, it's not easy to be on at the same time and both of us free from anything else to do.
At the same time, I would like to have a relationship with you and I would like to make it better, but if you don't even feel comfortable telling other people about it, it makes me think I'm taking it more seriously than you are.