An Empty Heart.
Dr. Min has talked with kids who were very demanding of attention. The fan club phenomenon could somehow be likened to those cases. She told us that many teenagers feel like they're nobody and valueless so they have to ask for or find 'value' from others. " The more people come to join their club the happier they feel. They appreciate increasing numbers of gifts and fans then put a premium on these external things," she said that
According to Dr Min,there's a risk for teenagers who have low self-esteem of getting involved in more serious problems such as narcotic use, illegal acts or even improper sexual behavior."Boys or girls who have this problem just don't care about the method they use to get attention. They 're willing to do anything to be famous or to get people to acknowledge their existence-even if it's only a temporary joy they won't hesitate to do it," the doctor said
All the problems in the world have a root cause and ao does this one. Many kids are being raised without good guidance and good examples because their parents tend to cling to materialistic beliefs as well,so the hold in the kid's heart is never fulfilled. " Parents should be the ones to teach their children to realise the real value inside and this process should start when they 're small kids.Love,care and sensibly,"Dr Min said
Previously,problems arising from the online world only occurred with large devices like personal computers so it was fairly was easy to control usage.Today everything has become integrated in smaller portable devices like smart phones and it much more difficult control usage.But Dr.Min said it is still necessary to do so. Parents should come to an agreement with their kids when deciding to buy them a smart phone,making clear how the phone should be used and the limits of the internet package."The family is the most important protection,"she emphasized.