How should I know as I am far ,but you are inviting all this problems for you . You could give up all this headache , it's far from your city . You could have a job to support yourself , you are alone ,so you don't need that much money . You need to live in peace not with headache . Hope you understand . If I was with you for sure I could take care of you . Forget everything , come to me , you would be happy I am hopeful .