For singles and those embarking on new relationships, the Hermit as feelings can be a sign that has some growing to do before they can fully commit to a relationship. If they are coming off fresh from another relationship or have experienced some other large life event, they may not be ready for a new relationship right now. Either way, this person needs to spend some time alone to connect with their inner self before they can move forward. If this is the case, you should not take it personally. Give them the space they need.