That's why most people are scared to come forward and do something about their abusive partners & relationships.
No one will believe them unless there's plenty of concrete proof, otherwise the victim gets blamed for everything.
KHJ's girlfriend gave plenty of evidence about what she said now and yet there are a lot of fans who are still victim shaming her & siding with KHJ. First saying 'oppar would do no such thing, his gf is an attention seeking wh*re' and now after finding out it's true that he beat her they've changed their tune to 'she probably deserved it, you did the right thing oppar, beat her some more!'.
I think it's mostly the ifans. So disgusting tbh. The fact that most of them are females saying this makes it even more worse.