Dear Tilac Ja,
First honey, I can not begin to tell you how much I appreciate the time you spent to write your very long email to me explaining everything about you and your situation. I love you very much and love you more everyday. I never had anyone express love and care to me as you have since we first meet. I do understand everything you wrote to me and I have tears in my eyes as I read everything you wrote. As I said from the beginning I don't care about big money I just want happiness and calm in my life and share a happy life with somebody special and that my angel is you.
I can tell you honestly tilac ja I have similar story as you, my parents divorced when I was 18 years old, I left my home in New Jersey and drove across the country to California to start my life on my own. I never went to collage and just started working when others were going to collage. When I was 20 I started working with cars and found I really liked it and when I was 25 I started my business and worked for myself doing my business for over 30 years. I was able improve my work to the point where I was working on more expensive cars like Lamborghini and Ferrari.
Remember when I say to you America is not good any more, in 2008 the economy in America crashed and I had no work coming into my shop. It was then I decided to sell everything I had and moved to Thailand. I lived in Bangkok from October 2008 until January of 2013. This is when I moved in with my sister and her alcoholic husband. It was in October of 2013 I came back to Bangkok and went to Yanhaee Hospital because I had a lump in the side of my neck, they diagnosed it as stage 4 cancer in my neck and the bottom of my tongue. Tilac, they told me I was only 3 months away from the cancer not being able to be treated.
Because I lived in Thailand and did not work in the U.S. I did not file any tax returns and because I didn't file and was not working I was able to receive Financial Aid at one of the best hospitals in the U.S. for cancer treatment, Northwestern Hospital and University and the Robert H. Lurie Cancer Treatment Center. They saved my life tilac ja and now I am cancer free. I went to Yanhee Hospital when I was in Thailand to see you and they confirmed again there was no traces of any cancer.
My angel, please try to understand. Because I was only working part time during the time I was at my sister's and going through my medical issue I did not file any tax returns. Since I have been working for my self, "Self Employed" there is no employer to get and documentation from as proof of employment. I have bank statements but Mr. Jim also stated in his email to me that they would want to see tax returns. Now I am not sure what I can do and I don't want to disappoint you. It breaks my heart when I see you cry and I only want to make you happy and give you a happy life that you deserve. You are such a good person and that you always want to help others with nothing in return. Then you offer to me to pay for your visa yourself is just so unselfish of you that I love you so much for even saying that and of course you would not have to do that my angel.
I know we meet for a reason and there are always obstacles to overcome in any relationship. I will have to work hard so we can be together and there is a reason I am here in Florida and that we met. We will talk more my Tilac Ja about what we can do, maybe can find another way that the visa can be obtained without tax returns and maybe just bank statements? I hope I haven't disappointed you my angel because that would also break my heart. I survived a life threatening illness and that happened for a reason. I'm still suppose to be on this earth and be with my Deedee!
I LOVE You So Much,
Richard