Don`t think to much about this. Have you seen the movie "Annie Hall" of Woody Allen from 1977. He says: "I would not be a member of a club, that wants to have me as a member". I feel it the same way about me. I would not recommend myself to any girl or woman. I am lazy, I drink to much, I am a womanizer who likes to have sex. And many, many other bad things about myself. I am not an evil person. I always care about others. I always try to be nice and good to other people. But I am not a good husband or partner. If I should recommend a partner, I would not say recommend myself. To any girl or woman.