I work offshore,as a marine engineer... i am working with APT marine engineering limited.....I will be back home in three weeks time that's when my off starts I have been in this job for about 6yrs now and am quitting this time cos I want to get settle down again that is why am here searching,i have being widower for 2years now.I enjoyed being a married man but didn't have much time to enjoy my marriage before my wife and I got separated, i lost her in a car accident 2years ago when she went to visit her parent in Oxford ..