I understand when wife have pain because sick - Husband will pain same.
And when husband have pain because sick - Wife will pain same.
Do not think too much. Make mind give relax my love.
Everyone must meet with it. It depend on who will meet with it slowly or suddenly.
I know everyone not want meet with it. But when it want meet with we. We must fight with it my love.
Yes live life it important.
Therefore at I LOVE YOU it is life my live