The reason is the distance that separates us. This is the main reason. We would improve our english together. Perhaps it would not be a problem.
You ask me whether I want a special girl. I answer as folows: What is currently normal?
Girl, who drinks alkohol?
Who smokes?
Who is unreasonable?
Who is horny?
Who talk vulgar?
Who has no sense of humor?
Who is irksome?