About my youthful life i spent most of my early life with my mom,i life was sweet when i was young,i have everything i ever wanted,but it was so unfortunate that my dad was cheating on my mom while he was in Germany,he had a long time family even before he got married to my mom,so when my mom found out they always fight in the home and mom will cry,it got so bad that dad had to leave the home he got a new place and always want me to live with him,then mom was left to be alone for 2 years,during this time i had the dream of becoming a soldier after i left college,i attended the Sandiego community college and came out among the best students in my school.My dad was very happy,when i told him about becoming a soldier he gave his support,so he got me the form from the University of Maine in New York,but when mom new that i have become a soldier she felt so unhappy and always ask me to quit,but all messages she wrote to me for a year daddy didn't let them get to me so i was kept in the dark not knowing the trauma mom was going through until i returned home one day to see that dad was very ill in the hospital,then mom came with my step mom,when dad recovered we all went home and i dad showed me all the letters mom has been sending to me,i pleaded with mom to forgive me and dad,she did and we became so happy again,but it took mom a long time to accept me being a soldier.