Well, you don't need to tell all that dear..
I am a married man have two kids
and I am here in this place just to chat honestly and politely which might lead to a good friendship.
I have formed many friends from different natiinalities and we chat to each other from time to time with no any stumbles in the way.
Yes I do agree with you there are many scammers and many others who have their own image of what they need in this skout.