they often misunderstand each other. These misunderstand frequently lead to angry and hurt feelings. However, the men in fact talk much more than women in public situation. Men talk to show their skills and knowledge but women use both public and private speech to build relationships with other people rather than separate themselves from other. Furthermore, when women who tell stories, they are usually about other people and when a women does tell a story a herself, it is often about foolish or silly thing she has done. Men in contrast, view conflict as a way to compete with others and “win” their point. They will voice disagreement openly, and even when they ask a question they may imply a challenge to the speaker. All of this is the reason that make me agree with him. This is because I can found situation like this in my life.