hahaha yes i understand, and if that is what they were saying then i think that research is dumb and i dont agree at all
i dont believe that living together hurts a relationship
if knowing everything about eachother is really a big cause of divorce then i would think that maybe people who did not live together would only separate maybe later then then people who lived together
because regardless of when you move in together you are eventually going to get to know everything about that person
it does not matter if it is before married or after, so how can that be the variable that is causing the divorce right?
i think maybe a bigger more true reason is becasue the only people who choose not to live together before getting married are very religious people because it says in that religion that is a sin, but in that same religion divorce is also very bad, so they never get a divorce even when the marriage is bad because their friends and family would look very badly upon them for that