1. Yes, I'm serious.
2. I've not said anything to my family about you. Until everything is worked out I am keeping my private life between you and I separate.
3. Yes, same house
4. Not
5. This year
6. The reason is there are people around all the time when I am home. When someone hears me talking to not only you but anyone they want to know who, what where and all that kind of stuff and at this stage I do not want to go into detail with them.
I hope you understand this and are prepared to wait for me.
If you decide that it is too much for you let me know straight up so that you don't feel that you're wasting your time.