5. So does sexy.
I remember a woman from college who had phenomenal confidence and was always being pursued by several men. She was also at least 50 or 60 pounds heavier than me. At first, I was a little baffled. It didn't fit with what I'd been told by the movies that sexy looked like. It took me many more years to internalize this truth, but I began to realize that sexy isn't one particular size or shape. What turns one person on is completely boring or unappealing to someone else.
What is sexy? Confidence. Kindness. Authenticity. Instead of boning up on what men want or how to camouflage "problem areas," let's work on those three.