We both agree on: love matters in a relationship and that relationships are better when the male is older.
In the United States, men are usually are older than women at first marriage. For 44% of the births occurring in 1988, for example, the father was three or more years older than the mother. Sixty percent of mothers aged 15-17 and 51% of those aged 18-19 reported that the father of their child was at least three years older than they were.