If family problems arise, it can be upsetting to a student if he/she isn't told about what is going on at home. Students need to continue feeling that they are still in the family loop, whether their families are nearby or far away. Family problems can cause a student to feel removed and helpless and the student may even magnify the issues. While, as a parent, you know your son and how he deals with certain situations, if there are any difficulties at home, ongoing communication between you and your son is very important.