I have a son and a daughter. He is 10 and she is 8. My children and I are extremely close and very loving. Both my children are very nice and polite kids and they also have very big hearts too. They are very good children.
My ex wife and I just grew apart. I was in the police and a lot of time at work and also working shift work. It was a very stressful job and I didn't realise that I was also very withdrawn personally as well and we just stopped spending time together and we just grew apart and stopped being happy together.
We are still good friends though, there is no bad feelings towards each other and we both love the children and it is good for them too that we stay good friends.
I will explain to you in much more detail if you like, but will have to do it later when I am not doing fish tank testing at the same time, haha. But please do not be sorry for asking, I want you to feel that you can ask me anything at all that you want to. You will never upset me or offend me or make me angry, I want you to ask me anything :-)