How can you practice what we covered today?
Negotiators who use the Amiable style have a strong need to feel recognized and valued in the negotiating partnership. Because they have a strong concern for relationships, they tend to focus more on feelings and less on facts. They will often begin a negotiation with social conversation that is unrelated to the negotiation. They are trusting, optimistic and generally committed to outcomes that benefit both parties.
To build rapport with your Amiable counterpart, show genuine respect and care. Be sincere, and don't discount personal feelings. Remain positive and solution oriented. Do not go "head to head" in a confrontational manner, which will most likely cause the Amiable to retreat and end the negotiation. Negotiate in a manner that builds trust and understand that for your Amiable counterpart, negotiation is more than just business, it is personal. Never tell an Amiable, "Don't take it personally."