You have to be married to LIFE and most importantly be married to YOURSELF, if u can't commit to yourself, how can you commit to anyone? There's nothing worse than not loving yourself and be wholly committed to your heart and to do what you love first and foremost, NOTHING WORSE THAN SOMEONE WHO LACKS PASSION IN WHAT THEY LOVE, you have to fall in love with life 1st before u fall in love with anyone else. Otherwise u will be severely lacking in some areas...IF U ARE GOING TO BE PASSSIONATE, BE PASSIONATE ALL THE WAY, 100% IN EVERY AREA/ASPECT OF YOUR LIFE...