Live a life happily
If I could choose, I would not born because life is full of sorrow. When we are hungry, we feel sorrow. When we sleepy, we feel sorrow. When we want to go to toilet, we really feel sorrow. That’s the basic thing of sorrow. Maybe we don’t even know it is sorrow because when we hungry, we just eat. When we sleepy, we just sleep. When want to go to toilet, we just go. So how does sorrow happen?
1. Want or don’t want something, something that we can touch such as cell phone, car, books, and laptop.
2. Want to be, such as want to be rich, want to have power, and want to have honour. When you get what you want, you want it stay forever with you which is impossible because everything happen à remain à dissolve such as US, we born à alive à die. Nothing remain forever.
3. Don’t want to, such as don’t want to be poor, don’t want to be old, and don’t want to die.
When we don’t get what we want or get what we don’t want, we feel sorrow. Today I have 3 Steps on how to be happy to tell all of you.
1. Satisfied with everything
Be satisfied with who you are. Nobody is perfect but you are the best. Everybody has their own idea so you can’t judge people. Everybody is beautiful in the way they are. As an idiom says “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder”
Be satisfied with everything you have. Be satisfied with your cell phone although it’s old. Be satisfied with your house although it’s small. Be satisfied with your car although it’s old. But it’s hard to be satisfy with everything you have so I recommend you about this. You have to see the real utility of those things. Not conceal utility. For example the real utility of Cell phones is calling and messaging but today we can’t refuse for internet access in cell phone but sometimes we still buy cell phone because of mainstream and to look rich which conceals utility.
Be satisfied with everything that happens to you. For example about my life. Last 2 years, I can’t enter in Arts-German in my school. Then I had to study in a previous school in Science-Maths which I really hate. So I decided to be exchange student to escape studying Science-Maths at least for 1 year. And last year, I tried to enter my school again in Arts-Spanish and finally, I can enter this time. I went to Bangkok and lived alone in dorm. I had to take care myself everything. Which is good before I went overseas. When I am here it is not so hard for me if I can enter in Arts-German last 2 years. Exactly, I would never be here. Another example I had is one week it seemed that all of you ignored me because you were studying hard for a test. Yeah it was a hard week for me but after that I got Lina to be my best friend. I am satisfied with everything that happened to me. I really am. I always think “Everything which happened to me is the best thing for me” If you hope, if it don’t happen like this, Maybe it would be better. Do you really think so? Maybe it would be worse than this.
2. Try your best
Try you best with everything. You will get the best results for your attempts. But you have to be sure that you really try your best and not only think you try your best although you can try more. And do the best in your duty. We are students, we should study hard as much as we can. You are the teacher, you should teach as good as you can. Don’t be greedy by exploiting others. How rich you are or how big house you have. When you die, you can’t take that with you. You have to die alone and get nothing because nothing belongs to you, including your body. Everything has to dissolve. Just do your best with your duty and don’t adhere to something. When you try your best, you have nothing to regret.
3. Now
No past, no future, only RIGHT NOW. You can’t go back and solve your mistakes in the past because “The river has no return” the same as time. It’s a waste of time to think about it. And about the future, the future is future. It hasn’t happened yet. We don’t know the future so it’s also waste of time to think about it. Only RIGHT NOW. Everything can happen right now. Every good things can happen right now. It’s waste of time to think about past or future. We can’t do anything with it. JUST DO IT RIGHT NOW. You will come closer and closer with your goal if you start to do it right now. Don’t only daydream about your goal. It’s waste of time and you get nothing. When you live with in the present, not the past and not the future, you will be very happy because you will not have regrets about bad things in the past and you will not worry about the future.
If you can adjust to these 3 Steps in your life. You will be happy in your life. Happiness is all around you. Everybody can live a life happily!!!