Dear Pam
I've just got email,and i was sorry to hear you're worried about arguing with a friend. I bet the problem isn't as bad as it seems,though! In any case, there are lots of things you can do to To reconcile with friends.
What first you should do is calm down. Then to face talking to her friend calmly and politely to the problem. Important during that talk use reason, do not use any mood. When you know the problem.
I really hope my advice helps and everything get better soon. Good luck,and don't forget to let me know what happens
Runya