Pim,
Plan very simple.
It will take me a few months to get everything sorted here to live with you on a retirement visa.
My plan if you agree :
I will come back October for a month. We can stay in a condo for 1 month, see how we can budget. You can work if you want , so that I can see what my days will be like if you are working. Hopefully you not work all.
I go back to the UK. I will get a 2 month 60 day visa to come to Thailand in January - we then extend to 90 days. I will finalise the renting out of my house - I will rent it out for 1 year - hopefully they will be happy and extend staying there. I need to get a contract with the tenant.
I come to Thailand January and we complete retirement visa - live together forever, but renew every year at immigration.
I open bank account and transfer money to a Thai bank every money which we will use for living and saving for a house.
OR.
I keep my money (75,000 baht) in the and try to rent out house as quicky as I can, get 2 month visa and come to stay with you sooner than next year.
It does not matter to me. I want to see you now, but I am also happy to keep the money I have now and use it when retiring.
Let me know how you feel about either.
I hope you can understand.
Richard (husband of Pimlada Coleman !)