Chandra in a Nakshatra of Shani = emotionally oppressed by the social order. Thus one may need to accept social pressure to get married to a conventional life-partner, or social pressure to accept a conventional profession.
The feelings often do not express fully, perhaps for fear of punishment for non-conformism or perhaps due to respect for the reputation of others. There is often a deep respect for the honor of the family, yet frustration with the materialism of that family culture also. The mother may be punitive in character or she may be fearful of public opinion.
It may be convenient to the native to accept the role of hierophant, priest, of high government official in order to reduce the discomfort of public complaint regarding one's emotional preferences.
Pushya is a delicate Nakshatra . Happy life for Pushya requires deep self-knowledge of one's own emotional needs. Pushya natives are born into a bit of a "catch-22" since the punitive parents have shaped this native into a "social performance machine" which is fueled by repressed emotion!