Base your repertoire not only on meaning but on sound. Sound conveys meaning and sometimes renders emotion clearer than a word which has a literal meaning. Think about the charge you get singing along with a chorus even if it's only a sound like, "ooooooo.”
Break gender roles. Swearing is anti-taboo. Why be restricted? The swear most often uttered by women is "Oh My God." Men are partial to swears that are more taboo, less restrained. Men and women share an affinity for some words like hell.[6]
Women tend to choose more benign forms of swearing (for the most part).[7]Perhaps this is due to a double-standard for swearers. When women swear it can be seen as uncouth. More so then for men.[8]