I was planning on staying in Thailand for at least 2 weeks and I want to ask you if you can take leave from work at anytime or do you have a time period where your job tells you when you can go on leave ? I also think that if we are to marry we should not marry till you retire. For us to marry right away may not be the smart thing to do because we will have much to talk about and we have to see if we will be able to live together or we are compatible. I think you know what I mean and I am almost sure we will be compatible but we will not know till we meet. Please tell me what you think. It is OK if you disagree or have another idea. I will not get angry 555, because this is your future life also and I want to know what you think. I also need to visit and meet your Mom and your family and to ask your Mom for permission to marry you and they may not approve. I think they will approve but you never know. When I visit you in Thailand since we will not be married or have a marriage license I do not know if I can stay with you in our house. It is OK, I understand, I can stay in a hotel. The money I spend for the hotel will not be a problem for me.