I can’t tell you how many of my gay friends are searching for husbands now that marriage equality is progressing further into other states. Too many of us are trying to skip over the “boyfriend” phase and go directly into the “husband” stage. So much so that within the first week of starting a relationship, we start treating each other like we’ve been married for twenty years instead of relishing the beginning stages. This is the time where you ought to have fun rather than settle down, but most of us want the family more than the man. We rush too quickly and often times are disappointed when our boyfriend isn’t on the same page so we’ve give up hope.