I know you don't use this site to find a husband. You never know who you will meet though. It is good to have an open mind. Even soulmates should be friends first. Maybe they will look like Orlando Evans :p
You are not doing anything wrong. Most women on this site want to talk to men. Most people that visit my profile or leave a message are women. It's natural though, many people are single and wonder if they will meet someone special.