hello world
people look for different things
-some claim to "only be looking for friends", which i doubt given the platform
-some want someone to pay for them, so they don't have to work
-some just want a relationship
-some want to get married, without much care about who that person is
-some actually do look for honest, true love, and are willing to give it back
i wouldn't mind new friends, but that's not why i'm here. i'm definitely not here to pay for someone. marriage won't happen without true love. finding a girlfriend without knowing you're a good match feels like something you did when you were 15, and didn't understand how relationships work.
you want honesty, but are you honest? you want money, but are you rich? you want faithfulness, but are you faithful? you want someone smart, with a good job, with good looks - these dream people who are extremely rare. are you that person? are you that rich thai model who gives money to poor people?
i'm not looking for that. i just want someone i get along with, and unless i find that person, i'm not going to get into a relationship "just because" (i'm lonely, it looks good to walk with someone, i don't have to go for meals alone etc.)
but finding that special person always goes in this order: friendship > dating > bf/gf > the magical land of having found "the one"
i understand there are people out there who JUST want a relationship (bf, marriage), but do you honestly think it will last? surely, you must have been single all your life then
long, and boring, but worth saying it seems, based on the endless "I WANT SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE" i come across
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