Narrative Service Methodology
RESIDENTIAL GROUP CARE 4-18 years of age:
Our goal is to bring back the sense of "family" and stability that has been lost in the lives of most of
the children we serve. Our house parent model targets children from the ages of 4-18, focusing on
children who have been sexually abused, trafficked and/or exploited, providing each child with a
"parent" role model. Each set of house parents have a strong desire is to be involved and nurture
each child so there is success in meeting or exceeding personal and service plan goals. With 24 hour,
7 day a week care, each house is a model of "family". Involvement in the day to day activities of
"family life" (cooking, household chores, school work, recreational fun, and community activities) the
child builds self esteem, confidence and the ability to have good interaction with “siblings” (other
children). Through our experience we are convinced that a house parent model home is vital to
success. Children at Thrive are taught life skills to assist them in independent living.
How will each Thrive House accomplish this?
1. Provide unconditional acceptance to each child by hiring those who have a desire to impact a
child’s life not just obtain a paycheck. Rejection is one of the major emotional issues facing each
child. Bonding and attachment issues intensify rejection issues and very quickly the child begins
the cycle of self-sabotage. By hiring the right individuals our staff overcome this barrier by
listening, “we’ll push through anything” attitude, providing positive reinforcement of good behavior,
setting boundaries and being truly concerned for the child's well being. This builds bridges of trust
and security in each child’s life.
2. Provide not only for the physical needs of each child through food, shelter and clothing but we
seek to provide care spiritually, emotionally, mentally, educationally and socially. This approach is
our holistic approach.
a. Thrive will encourage but not mandate spiritual growth through the child's involvement in local
church.
b. We build trust in the life of the child so they are free to share their emotional hurts and pains
with us. As well as providing appropriate counseling services.
c. Thrive uses volunteer and paid tutors to work closely with each child to accomplish educational
goals.
d. We will allow social interaction through appropriate school activities, recreational activities,
church functions, family and friend interactions.
3. Hold the child accountable for their own behaviors. Implementing parts of the Howard Glasser
Behavior Management Program allows us to reinforce good behavior and form proper boundaries
while giving each child freedom.
4. Establish routine and responsibility for daily household work. Routine provides a security net to
each child. Knowing what, where and when helps define boundaries and expectations and
lessens stimulation which helps each control behaviors and emotions. Chaos produces too much
stimulation and behaviors spiral out of control. Responsibility is an important part of the
development of each child. Having age appropriate responsibility simulates healthy maturity and