When you got drunk like last time, please give me a call, so we can chit chat.
Just now, boss called me, he is happy with my performance and would like to expand my role. Let's see how far and high I can go.
There is a saying that,
parents are responsible for teaching us how to fly but we are responsible for how high we would like to fly...
My little ninja, think of your future in next 5 yrs, where you would like to be and start taking actions to get there.
(This advice has a price tag as it comes from an engineer but will be less expensive than that of a lawyer '_'