DO give gifts to co-workers, friends and relatives in December (called Oseibo) and in June (called Ochugen) – you will find gift boxes in all kinds at all supermarkets during this time of year.
DO use both hands to give and receive gifts.
DON’T be offended if the gift is not opened in front of you – Japanese traditionally don’t open gifts until the giver has departed, though many young people no longer observe this custom.
DON’T open a gift until you leave, unless you are encouraged to do so.
DO open a gift if you are encouraged to do so.
DO give Christmas and birthday gifts if you want to – most Japanese people do so these days.
DO give chocolate to your boyfriend or male friends on Valentines Day.
DON’T forget to return the favor on White Day (March 14) if you receive chocolate on Valentines Day.
DO bring a local snack back to friends or the office when you return from a trip.