Nurses and healthcare providers may struggle to understand why the other partner does not attempt pregnancy if one woman in a couple experiences infertility; however, pregnancy and biological motherhood may not be compatible with her gender identity. Similarly, nonbiological motherhood, experienced by some as "lesbian daddyhood," (Pagenhart, 2006; Reed et al., 2011), may be incompatible with a femme-identified woman's gender identity. Gendered division of parenting is what feels right to these couples; one woman sees herself as "mom" while the other may identify as the "dad